Thursday, December 16, 2010

Marriage.

I have been thinking about marriage a lot, and working being a better wife... yada yada yada. :) Anyways anyone who knows me know I love quotes and I came upon a few sites that sparked my interest. Enjoy.

You can’t create a perfect marriage, but you can create a better marriage. It all begins with you. - Gary Chapman

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person. - Mignon McLaughlin

The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It's the choice you make - not just on your wedding day, but over and over again --and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.
-Barbara De Angelis

Marriage is not a noun; it's a verb. It isn't something you get. It's something you do. It's the way you love your partner every day. -Barbara De Angelis

Marriage is hard work. It's not easy, but it is worth it to go through life with your best friend. All the ups are worth the downs. You have to be realistic about marriage. All my life I thought marriage was this fairytale, happily ever after, perfect thing. Truth is, the only thing perfect about is how imperfect it actually is. Marriage is work, compromise, fighting..... but it is also love, incredible happiness, laughter. I have learned that compromise is essential, laughter is a must,
and above all you have to put your marriage and partner FIRST. They come before kids, family, friends. Period. If you want your marriage to last you have to put your husband [wife] first. When you got married you made a decision to put one person's feelings above your own. I love being married. I love Trev and the life we have. I love the struggles, I love growing and learning with him. We definitely have our many differences but it works for us. I support him and he supports me. I am grateful for the life and family I have. I am thankful for my wonderful husband. Thanks for letting me share. :)





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